Sex Addiction in Women: Challenges to Recovery

Sex Addiction in women can look different from sex addiction in men.  What is shared in common is the out-of-control risk taking behavior that is common to all addictions.  It is also not unusual for people recovering from one addiction, say, alcoholism or drug addiction, to substitute their need to numb feelings with sex.  This could be porn, soliciting sex in massage parlors or sexual encounters with colleagues at work, friends or even strangers. Vera is a 49 year old woman who has struggled with alcoholism for several years. After a DUI, Vera decided that she needed to quit. She [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:21+00:00June 23rd, 2015|Relapse Prevention, Sex Addiction|Comments Off on Sex Addiction in Women: Challenges to Recovery

Are you Addicted to Masturbation? Find Out!

  Masturbation is a natural sexual act. However, when masturbation is used frequently   as a self-medicating tool to enhance your mood, it can quickly become a compulsion. In basic terms, masturbation addiction is a compulsive need to masturbate. The addict loses the power to choose when and where to masturbate. This loss of choice and power is the basis of any sex addiction. The question is how much is too much? Are you in control of when and where you masturbate? Are you troubled by how many times you need to masturbate? Are you often late to work because you [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:22+00:00March 9th, 2015|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Depression and Porn Addiction: FAQ 

Is there a link between Depression and Porn Addiction? Depression and addiction go hand in hand. This is especially true of addiction to internet pornography. Symptoms of depression is commonly seen in porn addicts. One of the core beliefs of a porn addict is: "I am an unworthy person" (Carnes, Demonico & Griffin, 2001).  This mirrors what a depressed person feels about himself/herself. Other feelings common to both addiction and depression are isolation, irritability, hopelessness, suicidal ideation, etc. When a person is struggling with addiction along with depression, it is a double whammy or as professionals would  call it -- [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:22+00:00March 9th, 2015|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Sex Addiction In Women: FAQ

Is it possible for a woman to be a sex addict?  Sex addiction is commonly overlooked in clinical assessments of women. Society once believed women could not be alcoholics and now it cannot accept or may be does not want to accept that women can be sex addicts as well. Women around the world are socialized as nurturers and caregivers rather than receivers. However, it this same socialization and expectation that prevents a woman from seeking help for her problem. There is another reason why clinical diagnosis is difficult in women. Sex addiction presents very differently in women than in [...]

By |2015-09-20T14:14:08+00:00March 9th, 2015|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Why Don’t We Talk About It: The Social Aspect of Sex Addiction

Sex addiction is thought to be a sign of moral weakness by our society. Because of this, most of us do not even wish to discuss the topic.  We are either embarrassed or ashamed of such behaviors. People may view sex addicts as being morally repugnant and will label them as “perverts” or simply “weird”. If you have ever tried to speak about sex addiction with your friends or family, you have probably been met with embarrassed looks or an abrupt change of subject. You may also have met with dismissive statements like "men are dogs". As a society, we [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:22+00:00March 9th, 2015|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

What comes out of you when you are squeezed is what is inside of you –Wayne Dyer

Throughout our day, we are engaged in activities that will make our lives "better", easier, more secure, happier, or make others happy. We avoid adversity, or anything that may bring adversity upon us. And yet, if you look back at our lives, we see that when times have been hard, we have stepped up and taken on challenges that we never thought we could handle. We have all heard the story of Candace Lightner , the founder of Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD). Candace founded MADD when her thirteen year old daughter died when a drunk driver hit her and [...]

Sex Addiction: A Brain Disease

There have been many scientific advances on addictive behaviors and how the brain works. It is believed that the brain slowly molds drug behaviors and addictions through brain circuitry, genes, and how environmental factors affect them. Alcohol especially seems to have a strong effect on the brain, which may in turn develop into an addiction and can even be passed through hereditary genes. NIDA Director Dr. Nora D. Volkow claims that “Drug addiction is a brain disease”. He further states that while drug and alcohol may originally be taken voluntarily, it very quickly spins out of control and the user [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:23+00:00July 7th, 2013|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Sex Addiction: It All Starts Inside Your Brain

Researchers believe that all addictions, whether they are for work, pornography, eating, sex, or gambling have very similar processes going on inside the brain. Dr. Sabine Grüsser-Sinopoli of Germany believes “Addiction is all the same”. This ideology is very profound in that it means any overindulgence we choose to partake of may in fact become an addiction with negative effects to our health. Many of us like to dismiss pornography as something harmless, with a “Guys will be Guys” attitude. Others believe that it is destructive to families and demeaning to women. However, regardless of whether society or our environments [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:23+00:00July 7th, 2013|Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Six Signs you are Living with an Addict

Living or growing up in a family where one or more family members are addicted to a alcohol, prescription drugs or have compulsive behaviors can be challenging.  We strive to cover up, bail out while trying to survive ourselves.  Life feels confusing and sometimes insane.  We love our family and want to help them, but our attempts to help them stop are rejected.  Very often, we look back and see how living with an addict has changed us.  We may see strengths, but often we see parts of us that we don't really like. The Need to Control:  We have a [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:23+00:00July 7th, 2013|Alcoholism, For Spouses, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Anxiety and Porn Addiction: FAQ

Anxiety and Porn Addiction: FAQ Is there a link between anxiety and Sex Addiction? Anxiety and Addictions often go hand in hand.  Anxiety is an emotion that seeks to be relieved immediately.  Very often, when we feel anxious about a particular issue, we may try to solve the problem or plan ways to mitigate the issue.   When anxiety is limited to a definite issue, it can be resolved with effective problem-solving methods.  However, people who are prone to worry or feel anxious will tell you that certain issues can trigger anxiety symptoms that are way out of proportion or reasonable. [...]

By |2017-12-07T21:57:23+00:00July 7th, 2013|Sex Addiction|0 Comments
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